Rediscover Love, Connection and Shared Purpose

Marriage can be one of life’s most fulfilling relationships, but it’s not without its challenges.
Over time, the excitement fades, communication breaks down ·
Couples may feel like roommates than soulmates.
Small disagreements escalate into arguments, and unresolved issues create resentment.
Couples have a choice: let the distance grow or work to rebuild the relationship.
With the right guidance, you can restore the connection you once had.

Its never too late to restore trust, rekindle your bond and feel more understood by each other.

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Are You Experiencing These Common Marriage Struggles?

Does it seem like your spouse is indifferent to your emotional needs?
Do you find yourselves repeatedly arguing over the same unresolved issues?
Has your communication become shallow, mundane or merely transactional?
Are your sexual relations devoid of emotional intimacy?
Do you feel as though you are living separate lives under the same roof?
Do you feel that your marriage has grown stale and lost shared purpose?

Meet Your Marriage Coaches

With 4 decades of marriage and the experience of raising six children, John and Joann Ooi know firsthand the ups and downs of relationship. Having overcome challenges in their own marriage, they are deeply committed to helping others restore and strengthen their connections. Through talks, workshops, and personalized couple-to-couple coaching, they provide couples with the tools and insights needed to build a resilient and fulfilling marriage.

John

John, a certified Master Relationship coach with a background in educational consulting, brings practical and research-based strategies for lasting relationship success.

Joann

Joann is a senior lawyer, an International Coaching Federation (ICF)-trained life coach, Neuro Linguistics Programming (NLP) practitioner and a Positive Intelligence (PQ) mental fitness coach. She offers a unique approach to helping couples foster empathy and understanding.

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John's Story

One thought that went through my mind on our wedding day in Dec 1984 was, “Will I regret what I am getting myself into today?”. The thought was soon dismissed. Little did I realize I would come back to it more than a few times.

After marriage, the kids came along, and we got busy with family and work, unwisely letting our relationship suffer. Reaching a low point, everything was very tense whenever we were around each other. Any remark or action was interpreted negatively leading to accusations and almost daily arguments. I often thought then, what has happened to the sweet, kind and understanding girl that I married? It was a miserable feeling not knowing how to rebuild our relationship.

I felt a sense of loss, as though the vibrant connection we once shared had slipped away. I struggled with guilt, wondering if I was failing as a husband. A pivotal moment came when we sought outside help, eventually leading us back to a fulfilling and supportive relationship. I realized that with hope, effort and openness, we could begin anew and rebuild our marriage. I now look forward to journeying with Joann for the remainder of our lives together.

Joann's Story

One day many years ago, just before John left for his trip overseas, I told him that he would find the divorce papers on his table when he returned home. I was determined to take steps to end our marriage. This was at a very low point in our marriage, I was no longer happy nor peaceful. I felt unloved, misunderstood, unsupported and uncherished. The result? We fought almost daily over everything, including the smallest things.

As a consequence of my parents’ broken marriage, growing up, I had experienced and seen my own family suffer. I realized I owed it to myself, our children, and even to John to give our marriage another chance. Attending a Marriage Encounter weekend gave me hope that healing was possible, and began a journey that’s been challenging but deeply rewarding. Our road to recovery has continued since. I now remind myself, sometimes on a daily basis, to begin again and again whenever challenges surface in our marriage.

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Unlock the Secrets to a Thriving Marriage

Discover transformative tools and insights that can help you and your spouse connect deeply, resolve conflicts with confidence, and reignite your shared vision for a fulfilling future together.

Here's what you'll could gain:

Understand Your Spouse’s Needs: Discover how your spouse’s needs differ from yours, and how meeting each other’s needs can strengthen your connection.
Master Healthy Conflict Resolution: Learn how to approach disagreements constructively, focusing on solutions without damaging the relationship.
Turn Arguments into Growth Opportunities: Explore ways to repair and strengthen your bond after an argument, creating a resilient, more connected partnership.
Develop Active Listening Skills: Uncover the art of truly listening to your spouse, fostering mutual understanding and respect.
Recognize Cues for Connection: Become attuned to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal cues for affection, attention, and affirmation.
Invest in Each Other's Emotional Bank Account: Discover how small gestures can build a reservoir of goodwill and positivity in your relationship.
Identify and Tame Inner Saboteurs: Recognize unhelpful patterns that may be quietly harming your relationship—and learn strategies to overcome them.

Ready to start transforming your relationship?

Take the first step toward a thriving marriage.

John & Joann sharing their experiences on “Don’t Waste a Good Fight” at Harmony@Halia, the Family Enrichment Society’s Fundraising Dinner on 25 Sep 2024

Dearest John and Joann,

The Reality:
Sobering Weight Of The Daily Grind
Responsibilities, Habits, Routines That Grate

The Assurance:
Intertwined Confluence Of A Shared Commitment
Considerations, Language, Touch That Comfort

The Reminder:
Words Matter; Gestures Matter
Practise Love, Practise Kindness

When Vulnerabilities Are Cocooned In Safety, Truths Laid Bare Balm In Security.
In Kindness And Laughter-Laced Words And Deeds - It Was A Night Where You Showcased Lived Love In Authenticity And Honesty.

With love and appreciation,
Tim & Claire

What Others Are Saying:

Nick Chui

John is a friend and mentor who listened to me patiently and gave very good insights into married life. As a younger married man, I have benefited immensely from his wisdom.

Maria Ismail

Joann is a nurturer at heart, always showing kindness and compassion towards others. She listens well, has clarity of thought and her warmth and empathy foster trust and open communication. She is skilled at picking up pertinent issues which usually lead to fruitful conversations.